October 3rd, 2005

hug me and dont let go

10 ways to marry the wrong person

i think this applies to being in a relationship... like getting in a relationship... what you shouldnt do :P a little reminder for myself, i presume


1. You pick the wrong person because you expect him/her to change after you're married.

Never expect someone to change because you want them to, if they do, they will change for you before marriage

2. You pick the wrong person because you focus more on chemistry than on character.

Chemistry ignites the fire, but good character keeps it burning. Beware of the "I'm in love" syndrome. "I'm in love" often means, "I'm in lust." Attraction is there, but have you carefully checked out this person's character?
Here are four character traits to definitely check for:
1. Humility: Does this person believe that "doing the right thing" is more important than personal comfort?
2. Kindness: Does this person enjoy giving joy to other people? How does she/he treat people she/he doesn't have to be nice to? Does she/he do volunteer work? Give charity?
3. Responsibility: Can I depend on this person to do what s/he says s/he's going to do?
4. Happiness: Does this person like himself? Does s/he enjoy life? Is s/he emotionally stable?

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being a celebrity

so i was at safeway with carlos. i passed the magazines... (i always get suck into the tabloids). and the headlines read "is angelina pregnant?" and i'm standing there looking at it and i'm thinking "damn. i would hate to be a celebrity." because i'll walk into a super market for like milk or something and i ended up seeing a tabloid about how i look pregnant.

the first thing that might crosses my mind would be "damn, am i getting fat?" lol

i'm sure if i was a celebrity, i would have rumors that i'm pregnant. lol "is eliza pregnant? who is the father?!"

i need to go back to the gym


and here i am eating while writing this entry hahahah well at least it's just a plain bagel. no fat!
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