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for a while now i've always wanted to write an email to a certain someone and tell him/her how i feel about a situation. just to say that yes i do care even if it doesnt seem like it. yes i am wondering why you're doing that to yourself. sometimes i figured maybe i can just post it on lj, as vaguely as i can... just to let him/her know, "this is how i feel... you might not know i'm talking to you, but at least i got it out and maybe you'll read it."

many times i've wrote it, be it email or lj. and then i would save it for later and edit it over and over again. trying my best not to sound too intrusive or demanding or whatever. nothing to jeopardize our friendship or/and have it back fire at me when all i wanna do is care. but every time, i've decided not to post it or send it out... i figured who am i to say anything? if he/she is already doing it, obviously he/she doesnt care. so why should i?

how do you care for someone who doesnt even care about him/herself?
you dont.



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Mar. 2nd, 2006 08:49 pm (UTC)
i felt that this entry was very well written. no sarcasm intended. in regards to what you wrote...yeah, there's really nothing you can do for the person if they don't even give a damn about themself to begin with. all you really can do is go with the flow and hope things turn out okay. another way to look at it is "maybe he/she just doesn't know any better." so, perhaps a friendly insight might be just what he/she needs. im just throwing out suggestions. tho, i feel i may have somewhat contradicted myself here...
Mar. 2nd, 2006 09:49 pm (UTC)
I dunno what the heck you're talking about, but don't give up on the person.
Mar. 2nd, 2006 10:43 pm (UTC)
how do you let them know that you care or to give them some suggestions without having it backfired at you? like what if it's a touchy subject?
Mar. 4th, 2006 08:32 pm (UTC)
If it is a touchy subject trying to give them advise on how to help might make things worse. I think the best thing would be to just let them know that you are there for them. A change can only made when they are ready for it, and at that time if they need help they know you are there ready and willing.
Mar. 5th, 2006 04:56 pm (UTC)
OHH! TOUCHY SUBJECTS!! Avoid them like a frozen burrito.
Mar. 3rd, 2006 07:55 am (UTC)
I, too, call her babe.

Mar. 3rd, 2006 08:12 am (UTC)
shhh! that was a secret! now everyone that reads this will know!
Mar. 5th, 2006 04:58 pm (UTC)
you have secrets??
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