sometimes on those networking type of websites, you just get random ppl adding you as friends. i normally dont add strangers. yeah, i've learned :X i'm pretty blunt about it too. if their network is not anywhere i recognize (e.g. south america), i automatically ignore. if it is somewhere i have friends in (i.e. sf, hk, taiwan, etc) and i dont recognize them, i would send them a msg, "i'm sorry, have we met?" and if they respond with, "no, just wanna make new friends," i politely tell them i dont add ppl i dont know. i rarely add strangers

but recently (and i only noticed this happening on facebook), i got ppl i dont recognize at all adding me... but i feel obligated to add them bc we have a lot of similar friends. mostly friends from hk or ones i meant in taiwan. so i dont know if they are just adding me bc i know a lot of their friends, or if we went to the same school/program or bc we've met but i dont remember... ?!?! (it's been over 10 yrs!)

but seriously, i dont recognize their name... or faces... oh well.

and if you're wondering, yes, i do end up adding them... without asking questions lol i'm afraid to ask :X