a few weeks ago i went to the doctors to get my annual check up. they weigh me per usual and i realized i'm the heaviest i've ever been! i mean i've noticed that i've put on some weight but i guess it's another thing when you put a number on it. for a while now, my weight remained pretty consistent within a range but now it's way over. so i decided to go on a diet: to eat less, dont give into junk food cravings, and exercise more.
i find it interesting that when ppl hear that i'm on a diet, they go "you dont need to go on a diet! you're so skinny already!". i find it silly bc have they ever thought that maybe, just maybe, the reason why i am "skinny" is bc i care about my weight? i take care of it before it gets too bad. so yes, i do need to go on a diet bc i want to stay skinny! thank you very much!
i find it interesting that when ppl hear that i'm on a diet, they go "you dont need to go on a diet! you're so skinny already!". i find it silly bc have they ever thought that maybe, just maybe, the reason why i am "skinny" is bc i care about my weight? i take care of it before it gets too bad. so yes, i do need to go on a diet bc i want to stay skinny! thank you very much!
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Most of the time, you will not get an honest answer from a guy because something triggers in the guys head that says "don't even look, just pretend you looked and say something nice that is somewhat believable!"
If you ever noticed, at least for me (although I am a guy and probably don't care as much...) it actually feels much better to be checked out from a member of the opposite gender (especially if they rank high on the attractive scale, for some reason) rather than be told that I, or something I am wearing maybe, looks good. Probably because I know people will tell me good things in general, whereas when people are being checked out, its generally not something that is done just to flatter people, but instead usually gets done because they really want to look at you because they think you look good.
On occasion, people will look at you for other reasons, but its generally not as hard to tell the difference between a look of curiosity and a look of wanting to look.
That said, although this is rare, if you hear a compliment from me and we are not even on that topic or you didn't even fish for it, chances are it is true.
And if it makes you feel any better, I'm the heaviest I've ever been too.
and i'll keep that in mind about your compliment haha generally i dont give empty compliments but sometimes i tell white lies (not often though). it also depends on timing too. like how they feel at the moment
you looked great at your wedding! and hey if you did it before, it means it's possible! good luck! i'm not doing so well with mine bc i'm on vacation this wknd. AHHHH!